I'd like to qualify this with the fact that I am not a "hater". I just prefer to engage matters of humanity in those biological terms which suit us based on the meanings imparted upon me throughout my education.
This has formed my orientation to people and I'm afraid that I decline to suffer fools just because it's the prevailing idiocy du jour. If you want to "call" me on this feel free for I can place my back against the wall and take on the world regarding any conceptualization in the realm of humanity.
Personally, I really don't care about how you choose to live your life, your various orientations, or what you think you are even when contradictory to those natural properties that being human entail.
New York, bastion of stupidity in the United States of America. Home of the dreaded NYCHRL (New York City Human Rights Law) which requires employers, landlords, businesses, and professionals to use a preferred name, pronoun, title regardless of the individual's genotype.
The stupidity of this gender non conforming crap is if you're XY at the chromosomal level you're male and if you're of an XX chromosomal arrangement you're female regardless of hormones, attire, makeup or whatever and the so-called "law" doesn't change this fundamental aspect of people.
So ... I've been to New York and viewed the whores performing fellatio in the alleys off Times Square, the used needles in Central Park, the United Nations and it's continual attempts to rule the United States and all the rest of it and as far as I am concerned New York can stay there and I'll travel elsewhere thank you.
That absolute stupidity which is the NYCHRL is precisely what's wrong with the progressive moment and it's relentless pursuit of all things unnatural, abominable, and nasty in humanity.
Your gender was chosen at fertilization. Whichever gender you choose otherwise is simply a manifestation of abnormality. Now I can live with the concept of "choosing your gender because you're screwed up" but passing laws to require the normal to accommodate the abnormal is simply insufferable for me personally and evidence for the fact that the progressive movement is simply pandering for democrat votes during elections.
The people of New York City should have stopped the freaks from having their way with the legislature.
Bottom line here is:
If you're XY you're not a woman and you're never going to be one.
If you're XX you're not a man and you're never going to be one.
Despite your best efforts and expenditures you are who you are and this was determined long before you had any control of your destiny. Should medicine develop a nanite capable of rewriting your DNA such that you're sex chromosomes reflect your so-called "gender identity" then of course, the rules will change.
Otherwise you will remain that strapping "female impersonator" with 5 o'clock shadow by and large or that squirrely little "man" with the big hips and other feminine features which mark that lesbian that you really are.
However, by all means be who you are. Just don't legislate what I call you because I have a right to express my opinons first and foremost and the United States Constitution remains in effect as does the First Ammendment to it.