Non Breaking Up
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These matters trigger as mechanisms of self protection and sometimes equate to "raising shields" and other trendy froth which substitutes for reactive socialization in our 21st century schizoid world.
My personal preference is to make some decision in such matters from a standpoint of preemptive action and this has worked for me by and large for countless years ...
That pursuit being construed as more personally damaging than anything else in the mix.
So alas, all things come to an end sometimes even before they begin. I'm not one to go overboard anymore. Head over heels passed from my personality all too long ago.
Reality may be somewhat harsh but it's best to just pick up the pieces and move on when sufficient evidence exists to do so.
You can call it self realization, "coming to grips" or whatever floats your boat. I call it reality check.