National Death Doula Day 2023
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The end of life may be a touchy subject. Some of us are totally prepared. Others of us are not. The levels of discussion range from open and honest through horrific avoidance.
There are people who attempt to assist others with their end of life process in an attempt to attain closure and satisfaction with our handling of the process and our loved ones.
I did not know of these people during my tenure in the medical field.
While the literature primarily speaks of these people assisting childbirth; the late breaking and much more sparse information includes hospice and other palliative and/or end of life care.
The "Death Doula" provides this support to both the passing and remaining people. They are not medical care providers, but administer emotional, physical, and spiritual comfort and support and provide a mechanism to give the caregiver respite and assistance.
The "End of Life Doula" or "Soul Midwife" as they are also called has a focus on the emotional and spiritual aspects of dying as well as the practicalities of provisioning and logistics for the psychological needs of all involved.
I cannot imaging having the right stuff to do this work. I'm glad they are there for others and I hope I don't require their services when my ending comes ... whenever that may be.
The Gospel of Matthew 24:32 Now learn a parable of the fig tree; When his branch is yet tender, and putteth forth leaves, ye know that summer is nigh: 24:33 So likewise ye, when ye shall see all these things, know that it is near, even at the doors. 24:34 Verily I say unto you, This generation shall not pass, till all these things be fulfilled. 24:35 Heaven and earth shall pass away, but my words shall not pass away. 24:36 But of that day and hour knoweth no man, no, not the angels of heaven, but my Father only.
Holy Bible, King James Version