Female Attraction and Me
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Not really being a 'fatty fat fat' as I may have been in childhood, I have evolved yet again into quite the corpulent fellow from more of a mesomorphic than endomorphic body type with the addition of those consequences of age and low T.
I keep reading about women who are attracted to so-called 'big guys' such as myself but I really haven't found that to be a target rich environment in my lifetime; however ...
There are extenuating circumstances with which a female of the species might find contentious if they become engaged in my sphere of existence.
There's a propensity for me to be somewhat the loner and I appreciate my down time and my solitude at times. This often comes off as aloofness when in fact I'm typically quite approachable and gregarious when engaged socially at any moment. Even if I'm 'cranky' it is typically not a problem for those in my midst as I have been working on this for some 40 years now.
My interests are sometimes described as esoteric and I'm afraid that some of the females I encounter simply could not care less for those things which interest me on a regular basis.
So in the total absence of despiration what is left is who I am and what I do and those brief interludes of conversation have me thinking that some ladies for whom there is no attraction whatsoever are indicating that they think I wish to make unwanted advances. Pah-tooey
I'd be personally offended if I didn't think it was so funny otherwise. When I think of what I have and what they have juggling their six toddlers from obviously different fathers I am left wondering if priorities even exist sometimes.
So who I am is what I am and I could be a good mate were it in the cards. The bulk of what I do precludes much in the way of pursuing other interests and that solitude thing is something I could consider factorial.
Those who I engage both understand the nature of who I am and have an appreciation for those aspects of my existence which intersect their own interests.
I have a penchant for the finer points of lovey dovey which is easily satisfied in a number of scenarios and this is a fairly well known fact as well and is exploited by the initiated to our mutual advantage.
Also, I don't view anyone so acceptable as to surrender my lifestyle in compromise at this juncture. Like the concept of "I'm glad you came but now you've got to go" is more important to me than pack your bags and move in ... it's just not happening out of the blue like it could have earlier in the great scheme of things.
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Whereas I was more relationshp centric early on I'd just as soon sleep alone these days with the occasional guest from time to time ... when she's of the minimal requirements I set for intimate company. I wasn't always so picky but that was then and this is now. It's been this way since about 1980 and the advent of deadly STDs available to the foolhardy.
Top 5 Male Body Shapes Women Rate in the Bedroom Overweight / plus-size men: 38% Athletic / muscley men: 21% Tall men (taller than 6 foot): 13% Short men (shorter than 5 foot 8): 10% Slim / petite men: 9% Top 5 Reasons Why Women Rate ‘Overweight / Plus-Size Men’ Between the Sheets They seemed more eager to please me than themselves: 42% They were more caring and gentle: 42% They made me feel less self-conscious about my body: 27% I had better orgasms: 19% They were more adventurous and willing to try new things: 14%
5 Scientific Reasons Why Women Love Fat Guys
https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guys