
One of my buddies is having issues with his lady. It’s so unlike him in general; so many times I’ve heard him speak of her in superlatives and revel in her awesomeness … but of late he’s pretty subdued and quite frankly, a little sad. This is very uncharacteristic and has me somewhat concerned for his emotional well being.
“I love you, not only for what you are, But for what I am when I am with you.”
Roy Croft
Love is ageless, boundless, and without ego or strings; though it can be the strings that attach others to our hearts.
“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”
Aristotle
You are me and I am you — and we are one, we two … and therein lay the crux of the issue. Love provides for the single entity known as a ‘couple’. This is a much more complex individual than a ‘single’. Singles function alone. Couples function in concert. That which one does affects the other and vice versa … and the result is much more than the sum of the activities of both.
“Each moment of a happy lover’s hour is worth an age of dull and common life.”
Aphra Behn
I’ve often said that I would give up everything I’ve ever known to have had that elusive orb known as ‘true love.’ As Gibran said, “Love, but make not a bond of love …” but I would gladly give up all this freedom for the tie that binds. It depends on your orientation. Some can love freely. Others evolve through love. Still others are impenetrable by Cupid’s arrows. The loner of today becomes the wistful elderly person of tomorrow. Take time to know and understand those whom you love. It’s a sure way to open the channels of understanding yourself.
“Love distills desire upon the eyes, love brings bewitching grace into the heart.”
Euripides
To love is to know both yourself and another, but true understanding comes only with time.
“I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach…”
Elizabeth Barrett Browning
The depth of love requires three distinct forms which are known as eros, philia, and agape.
Eros refers to the love of erotic intimacy, philia the love of friendship, and agape known as ‘unconditional‘ love or ‘charity‘.
“One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life. That word is Love.”
Sophocles
In all the frailties and faults which entail that thing called the human condition; the one redeeming aspect of which we all may partake is love. Love is sometimes happy, laughing, and joyous. Love can be taxing and vexing. Love can be sorrow and tears … but it is much better to love — even if you ‘love and lose’ than to never know love at all.
So cheer up Todd. You’ve been mostly a happy fellow with this woman and I think you’re a lucky man to have gone to that place where I have never been.
This thing called love I just can’t handle it
this thing called love I must get round to it
I ain’t ready
Crazy little thing called love
This (This Thing) called love
(Called Love)
It cries (Like a baby)
In a cradle all night
It swings (Woo Woo)
It jives (Woo Woo)
It shakes all over like a jelly fish,
I kinda like it
Crazy little thing called love
There goes my baby
She knows how to Rock n’ roll
She drives me crazy
She gives me hot and cold fever
Then she leaves me in a cool cool sweat
I gotta be cool relax, get hip
Get on my track’s
Take a back seat, hitch-hike
And take a long ride on my motor bike
Until I’m ready
Crazy little thing called love
I gotta be cool relax, get hip
Get on my track’s
Take a back seat, hitch-hike
And take a long ride on my motor bike
Until I’m ready (Ready Freddie)
Crazy little thing called love
This thing called love I just can’t handle it
this thing called love I must get round to it
I ain’t ready
Crazy little thing called love
Crazy little thing called love
The Late & Great Mr. Farrokh Bulsara
aka Freddie Mercury
Frontman, Queen